Wednesday, February 10, 2010

L-O-V-E (pink~wedding~a wise skin horse)


No matter how hard I try to avoid it, the month of February fills my brain with thoughts of two of my favorite topics: pink and love. In honor of St. Valentine, I thought I’d share a few photos from our wedding (we’ll be married two years this coming June), as it was an occasion that was also filled with both pink and love.

May this Valentine’s Day find you all feeling loved (in the real sense), whether it be from a significant other, a secret admirer, a loyal four-legged monster;), a friend who has seen you through your best and worst times or a family member who has loved you inside & out during those best and worst times. Happy Valentine’s day, dear friends.


EXCERPT FROM THE VELVETEEN RABBIT
~ By Margery Williams ~

"What is REAL?" asked the Rabbit one day, when they were lying side by side near the nursery fender, before Nana came to tidy the room. "Does it mean having things that buzz inside you and a stick-out handle?"

"Real isn't how you are made," said the Skin Horse. "It's a thing that happens to you. When a child loves you for a long, long time, not just to play with, but Really loves you, then you become Real."

"Does it hurt?" asked the Rabbit.

"Sometimes," said the Skin Horse, for he was always truthful. "When you are Real you don't mind being hurt."

"Does it happen all at once, like being wound up," he asked, "or bit by bit?"

"It doesn't happen all at once," said the Skin Horse. "You become. It takes a long time. That's why it doesn't happen often to people who break easily, or have sharp edges, or who have to be carefully kept. Generally, by the time you are Real, most of your hair has been loved off, and your eyes drop out and you get all loose in the joints and very shabby. But these things don't matter at all, because once you are Real you can't be ugly, except to people who don't understand."

xoxo,

Blair

12 comments:

  1. Tears are rolling down my cheeks from reading that excerpt. I must read that book again!
    Happy Valentine's day, dear Blaire.
    Thank you for sharing these wedding pictures..I hope you will share more...and bigger! :)
    xo

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  2. I hope you have a lovely Valentines Day!

    I love The Velveteen Rabbit- makes me cry every time ♥

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  3. a beautiful post dear friend! I agree that Valentine's is a day for love of all sorts: husbands, wives, partners, friends, children, animals.
    I'll be spending Valentine's without my hubby as he is away for the Olympics. But I will have Noah- so that makes it all better!

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  4. Lovely post Blair...how beautiful your wedding was! loved the excerpt too...hoping you have a love-filled & wonderful weekend, Rachel xoxo

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  5. Thanks for sharing your wedding pictures; what a beautiful day!
    The excerpt is unbelievably moving - loved every word!
    Happy Valentine's Day!

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  6. i completely forgot about how amazingly adorable your little cousins dresses were at your wedding. prettiest wedding i ever did see!! makes me want to go back and do mine all over again!
    love youuuuuu!
    amberrrrrr

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  7. what a totally chic wedding! saw you at kat's cradle and wanted to say hi.....

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  8. Oh, how I love the wreath and the paper lanterns...

    AND the Velveteen Rabbit! What a sweet, heart-wrenching story. One of my favorites.

    Thank you for sharing!

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  9. ...everything..so beautiful....my dear friend

    what a lovely post..so pefect...

    makes me cry too...

    sending valentine love

    kary and buddy
    xxx

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  10. oh sweet blair. the most perfect post; it speaks to me....
    i can't stop thinking about love and being inspired by pink as well...your wedding photos are oh so lovely!
    i love your excerpt...i must re-read this treasure...
    happy weekend & month of love...let's bask in it!
    hugs my friend!
    k

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  11. Thanks for entered my giveaway!
    Good luck!
    Federica
    xoxo

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  12. I love the Velveteen Rabbit. My best friend read this piece aloud at my wedding. Everyone was in tears by the end. So lovely!

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Thank you for your lovely little notes :).